If someone gives a girl a ring in front of a group of Jews and says "Harei at mkudeshet li" while they are dating does she now need a get to marry someone else after they break up?
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1As far as I know, yes. And that is why people have to be careful with saying that. – Harel13 Oct 15 '23 at 14:52
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2I remember this happening even in a joking scenario and they needed to go through the whole rigmarole! – Dov Oct 15 '23 at 15:00
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3Even if they're not dating – robev Oct 15 '23 at 15:10
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See Shu"t Atzei Besamim for in depth discussion, you can also see Rav Jachter on this inyan in Gray matter – sam Oct 15 '23 at 15:38
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See link to a similar situation https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/israel-news/1806993/ashdod-beis-din-rules-on-marriage-of-two-children-in-paris.html – Daniel Ross Oct 15 '23 at 16:06
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@sam, what section/page talks about it in gray matters? – Bob Shmo Oct 15 '23 at 16:10
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https://www.sefaria.org/Gray_Matter_III%2C_Family_Matters%2C_Frivolous_Wedding_Ceremonies.1?lang=bi – sam Oct 15 '23 at 17:06
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Welcome to Mi Yodeya, @BobShmo! How's your cousin Yosef? – יהושע ק Oct 15 '23 at 20:35