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I've recently been the subject of bullying by a group of students. I taught a difficult module alongside another module, which was taught by somebody else. The other module was much easier and offered huge amounts of support. Students described having their hands held in this module. One student told me that this module felt like students were being treated as newbies, whereas my module felt like they were being treated as second year students at a Russell Group university. The university where I work is more teaching focused.

Having heard feedback from students, I think that the tasks I set them were quite challenging, and I don't think they were used to it. I'm still adjusting to the level that the students are operating at in this university, and were I to I teach in the module again, I would adjust the level.

However, the main issue is that students posted rude, personal and abusive feedback in the module evaluations and also posted nasty comments on the module forum. I also got nasty emails from some students, and although I passed this up to management, nothing was done and I was left to deal with this alone.

It has affected my self esteem and my confidence as a lecturer. I've always had plenty of good feedback before and I've always felt competent in my role. I don't know if I have any rights in terms of being bullied by students, but one student has just told me that there is a Facebook group where I was being slated and there were really personal comments. The student I spoke to today described it as a bit of a hate group, directed at me. One student even copied an email that I had sent her (a photograph of it) and posted it on a Facebook group. I'm not sure if this contravenes any confidentiality regulations.

Anyway, I just wondered if anyone else had experienced this and if anyone had any advice. I've been teaching for 10 years and I was on the verge of quitting my job, and I don't feel like I can easily face teaching these students again. On a personal level, I see it as an opportunity to develop greater resilience, but I can't help the fact that it really feels undermining and threatening to be in this situation.

Any advice or support would be appreciated.

Massimo Ortolano
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Dharma Jane
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    Get used to students not liking you... grow a thick skin. You're not there to make friends, you're there to be fair and teach a tough subject. You will have many students not like you because your course is challenging. Read the feedback impartially, and see if there is a common theme that needs attention that you can improve upon. Otherwise, disregard it as grumbling students. You'll have a tough career if you take personal offense to every negative grumbling from students, and an even worse career if you try to fight each one. – SnakeDoc Feb 04 '18 at 21:49
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    As a pseudo-side-note, depending on the content of the Facebook group you may have a case with Facebook r.e. targeted attacks. – Dan Feb 05 '18 at 16:57
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    @SnakeDoc This is not very helpful advice given that the OP may be working in a professional environment where these things cannot so easily be shrugged off. Do you actually know anything about working in UK academia? – Yemon Choi Feb 13 '18 at 03:00
  • @YemonChoi What about the OP's post makes you think this is some sort of professional environment? Student's not liking a tough professor isn't somehow unique to the UK. – SnakeDoc Feb 13 '18 at 17:49
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    @Dharma Jane, respect to you. You are brave and great to have stuck with teaching for 10 years. SnakeDoc means to help you, not disparage you. A thick skin is a blessing and it is essential for survival sake and also for your own good. It really takes time to cultivate a thick skin. First thing first always, banish all fears from your mind. Banish hurts too. That will all take practice and you will learn that, gradually. Good luck. Once you have cultivated a thick skin over time, you will find living so much easier. –  Aug 12 '19 at 19:29

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In short, the behaviour of your students is not acceptable - no matter how good or bad your teaching was.

If something like this were to happen at my university, I as vice dean for teaching would invite the whole group for a face-to-face meeting and explain to them how adults should solve problems.

In fact, this is something you should aim for, since the problem will persist and affect others as well, since the students' behaviour will not change.

We had good success with early feedback opportunities (not just the end term evaluation), micro-evaluations (anonymous feedback which can be a one-liner) which are discussed with the whole group, an honest open door policy, and with involving student organizations and representatives early on. Some course formats have to be explained to students over and over again... This might be helpful in the future, but won't help for now.

If you are still teaching this course, I'd suggest an intervention (if possible with the help of another neutral professor) where you address the problem in front of the class. If possible, summon an extra meeting which does not take place in your usual teaching room. For such a setting, I would suggest just asking the students about feedback regarding your lecture, but ask them to follow commonly accepted feedback rules. Afterwards, tell them what you took as the take home message from the feedback.

Afterwards, you should tell them that you prefer direct communication about any issues.

In the best case, they should be ashamed afterwards...

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I'm sorry to say this, but - as I see it, I don't think you were bullied.

You got negative (individual) feedback, and perhaps some of the messages were even nasty like you said they were. People may have even complained about you in a Facebook group (which, if I understand correctly, you have not actually read the contents of). That does not constitute bullying.

Remember, you are the person in a position of power relative to these students. You set their grades, you can make demands of them, you decide if they face a module that's easier or harder.

If they had contacted your friends or family to deride you; if they had spread lies about you; if had tried to publicize their derisive comments to as many people as possible on campus; if they had threatened you with some kind of retribution, or been physically violent towards you; etc. - then you might have called it bullying.

It's perfectly legitimate to feel shaken, insulted, hurt, by their behavior; but it seems to have been within the bounds of what you should just tolerate.

So: Bear in mind the positive feedback that you often get; it's an assurance that you can and do teach well, in most situations. Talk about this experience with close friends and colleagues, or your spouse if you have one. In fact, given the severity of what you describe, perhaps you should consult a psychologist, for more personalized advice about how to handle this situation. It seems to have touched a nerve that runs much deeper than the experience with these students.

Edit: Note that even if you don't agree with my point of view, it's a point of view which many may adopt, given the information we have. And if there are many whom you can't convince you were wronged, your justification for any retaliatory action or complaint would be very shaky. Try to turn the tables and see what this scenario sounds like from the students' point of view.

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    I agree that there's a line between private communications between students and actions that directly engage the OP, but there is also a line between comments in a general-purpose group and the formation of a dedicated group to discuss an individual teacher. It doesn't have to be bullying to be inappropriate behaviour that should (in an ideal world, anyway) be addressed by the university in some form. (Other than that, +1 - there is a real need to objectively consider just how bad the behaviour is, ideally with input from external observers.) – E.P. Feb 04 '18 at 00:34
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    @E.P.: 1. OP did not say there was a Facebook group formed especially for discussing him, he said he had been derided. Actually, he doesn't even quite say that, he says he has been told this is the case. 2. If a students feel there's a problem with a teacher of theirs and form a Facebook group to discuss it, even that would still not be bullying. Had they been coordinating how to get back at him or smear his name in public, that would have been bullying. – einpoklum Feb 04 '18 at 00:37
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  • OP has been rather unspecific and vague about what exactly people had wrote him, said to him or said about him. I have this feeling that others might characterize what was said as "harsh" or "unfair" but perhaps not inappropriate. 4. Something rather extreme has to happen, in my view, for university authorities to start curtailing student speech; and even it had been inappropriate, it's very unlikely from what OP described that things were as bad as that.
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    Indeed, I agree there's a high chance that this is unlikely to be bullying. But I'll say it again: it does not have to be bullying to be inappropriate behaviour. And there's a huge range of possible institutional responses that do not entail curtailing speech, starting with a frank chat between a tutor and the students about how to handle adversity in a professional way (particularly if it does turn out to be the case that a dedicated "hate group" (OP's term) has been set up). I'm amazed with your virulent reaction at someone (mostly) agreeing with you, though. – E.P. Feb 04 '18 at 00:47
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    @E.P.: The reaction was due to the suggestion that university authorities may need to be involved. I tend to be touchy about the prospect of exercise of coercive power. Anyway, I agree with your last comment. – einpoklum Feb 04 '18 at 01:11
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    einpoklum, is there any reason why you're consistly using the male pronoun for the OP? – Yemon Choi Feb 04 '18 at 03:32
  • @YemonChoi: Sorry, subconscious cultural bias. – einpoklum Feb 04 '18 at 09:11
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    OP says she's been teaching for ten years. I'm sure she's encountered her fair share of negative and even nasty feedback and can tell the difference between this and bullying. What's the point in downplaying her experience and her current situation? – henning Feb 04 '18 at 09:51
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    @henning: It's the other way around. OP has describ ed events which do not constitute bullying, but is up-playing them to be considered bullying and is considering or is being encouraged to initiate disciplinary procedures against some of her students. She asked what to do in this situation, and I reflected how it comes off and what I believe would be relevant/legitimate. – einpoklum Feb 04 '18 at 10:04
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    Hi, I clarified the bullying situation below. Also, colleagues of mine came to me because they were concerned about what students were saying and posting on a university forum about me, and described the situation as being a witch hunt. Other colleagues teaching my module have been supportive and cannot understand why do students are behaving in this way, and have apologized that I am going through this. I am certainly not up playing anything. I'm not new to this game, but I'm new to this behaviour – Dharma Jane Feb 05 '18 at 08:53
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    I didn't feel that it was necessary to outline exactly what students said about me and exactly what they have done. To be honest, I don't really want to relive it or put it in black and white here, but suffice it to say that my experience is real and was not up for evaluation here. I do appreciate the supportive comments that I've received, as well as some of the critical advice. I do not appreciate my experience being questioned, though. – Dharma Jane Feb 05 '18 at 08:57
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    @DharmaJane: I answered based on what you wrote. Your experience is apparently different, but remember your students' experience might be quite different than your own. – einpoklum Feb 05 '18 at 09:04
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    Feels pretty important people remember that just because they're students, doesn't make it any more acceptable. If this was your colleagues behaving this way - it 100% would be an HR issue, considered as bullying. The fact they are students, does not lessen that. – Bilkokuya Feb 05 '18 at 10:40
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    @Bilkokuya: Behavior by someone who is under your power, e.g. a student, can and must be tolerated more than behavior by someone who is not. This is part of the responsibility of having power on someone. And this is doubly the case when the offensive behavior is by people who don't have power over you. So, indeed, from colleagues - this could well have been considered at least harrasment and possibly bullying. Not so from students. – einpoklum Feb 06 '18 at 20:26
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    @einpoklum Do you actually know about the NSS, the TEF, and so on? Or professional life teaching in a UK university which is so-called "teaching intensive"? – Yemon Choi Feb 13 '18 at 03:01
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    @einpoklum Because if not, then I don't think it's very productive to keep challenging the OP on her diagnosis of her immediate situation, based on your remote reading and general preconceptions. – Yemon Choi Feb 13 '18 at 03:08