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THE 10TH ANNIVERSARY EDITION WITH A NEW FOREWORD FROM KRISTIN NEFF

'Kristin Neff offers practical, wise guidance on the path of emotional healing and deep inner transformation.' Tara Brach, PhD, author of Radical Acceptance

Kristin Neff PhD, is a professor in educational psychology, and the world's expert on self-compassion. A pioneer who established self-compassion as a field of study, Kristin offers a powerful solution for combating negativity and insecurity - the symptoms of living in a high-pressure world.

Through tried and tested exercises and audio downloads, readers learn the 3 core components that will help to heal destructive emotional patterns so that you can become healthier, happier, and replace negative and destructive measures of self-worth and success with a kinder and non-judgemental approach.

Self-Compassion recognises that we all have weaknesses and limitations, but in accepting this we can discover new ways to achieve improved self-confidence, contentment and reach our highest potential. Simply, easily and compassionately. Kristin Neff's expert and practical advice offers a completely new set of personal development tools that will benefit everyone.

'A portable friend to all readers ... who need to learn that the Golden Rule works only if it's reversible: We must learn to treat ourselves as well as we wish to treat others.' Gloria Steinem

'A beautiful book that helps us all see the way to cure the world - one person at a time - starting with yourself. Read it and start the journey.' Rosie O'Donnell

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Neff's powerful research and her ability to explain how self-compassion affects our everyday lives makes this book a transformative read. -- Brené Brown, PhD, author of The Gifts of Imperfection

Drawing on a powerful blend of Western psychology and Eastern meditative strategies, Kristin Neff offers practical, wise guidance on the path of emotional healing and deep inner transformation. -- Tara Brach, PhD, author of Radical Acceptance

A beautiful book that helps us all see the way to cure the world - one person at a time - starting with yourself. Read it and start the journey. ―
Rosie O'Donnell

A portable friend to all readers... who need to learn that the Golden Rule works only if it's reversible: We must learn to treat ourselves as well as we wish to treat others. ―
Gloria Steinem

This book and its courageous and compassionate author will become essential reading for all of us seeking inner peace and true, lasting happiness in our lives. Savor and enjoy! ―
Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., author of Mindsight

In this deeply personal, highly practical book, Kristin Neff moves the entire study of compassion forward. ―
Sharon Salzberg, author of Loving kindness and Real Happiness

This is an important book. Following its advice can free readers from the chains of self-criticism and replace them with the wings of self-encouragement. ―
Steven Stosny, Ph.D., author of Love Without Hurt

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Self Compassion is a revolutionary new idea - a better idea - pioneered by the author, Kristin Neff, with profound implications for how to live our lives. ― Christopher K. Germer, Ph.D., author of The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion

An original and doable blueprint for improving the quality of your life. -- Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, author of Flow and Creativity

If you have a longing to relate to your inner life with authentic care, this book will show you how. Drawing on a powerful blend of Western psychology and Eastern meditative strategies, Kristin Neff offers practical, wise guidance on the path of emotional healing and deep inner transformation. -- Tara Brach, PhD, author of Radical Acceptance

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The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Yellow Kite
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ 7 July 2011
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 320 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1444738178
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1444738179
  • Item weight ‏ : ‎ 400 g
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 15.2 x 2.8 x 23.2 cm
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Kristin got her Ph.D. in 1997 at UC Berkeley, studying moral development. She is currently an Associate Professor in Human Development at the University of Texas at Austin.

During Kristin's last year of graduate school she became interested in Buddhism, and has been practicing meditation in the Insight tradition ever since. While doing her post-doctoral work she decided to conduct research on self-compassion - a central construct in Buddhist psychology and one that had not yet been examined empirically. In addition to her pioneering research into self-compassion, she has developed an 8-week program to teach self-compassion skills. The program, co-created with her colleague Chris Germer, is called Mindful Self-Compassion.

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Customers find this book life-changing, with one mentioning how it helps accept and embrace life's lows. Moreover, the book is well-written and easy to understand, making it a down-to-earth read that can be read daily. Additionally, they appreciate the advice provided, with one customer noting the inclusion of case studies to illustrate points.

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Customers find the book inspirational, describing it as uplifting and life-changing, with one customer noting how it helps them accept and embrace the lows of life.

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"...Self-compassion is a much better source of happiness and contentment than self-esteem, as the book and Dr Neff's studies show...." Read more

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I’m half way through this book and I’ve highlighted so many pieces of wisdom & learning that I’ll be returning to again & again as part of my healing journey! For me personally, the timing of this book is key - I’m working with a therapist regarding childhood trauma & doing other growth work. This book alongside that is perfect for my healing journey. I would recommend this book to anyone who is their own worst critic and is open to being kinder to themselves and accepting to be human is to be flawed. Thank you Kristen Neff.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 29 January 2025
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    Very enlightening and inspiring book. Some of the language, words & concepts are a bit dated and are indicative of the time in which the book was written, but there are certainly universal truths that transcend space, time, culture, religion and gender within this book.

    Self-compassion, self-appreciation, gratitude and compassion for others are truly key to sustainable happiness, wellbeing and inner peace.
  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 10 January 2021
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    Came across Kristin Neff’s work on self-compassion a couple of months ago while experiencing an episode of high anxiety, which later spiralled into a deep depression. Two months later and, in combination with practicing meditation and receiving counselling, Kristin Neff’s Self-Compassion has turned my life experience completely around to one that is filled with much more calm, clarity, happiness and hope.

    What I have experienced through reading Self-Compassion is nothing short of profound and life-changing. I am hopeful that what I have gained from Kristin’s guidance will remain with me throughout my life and will enhance my life experience significantly in the long term.

    I never realised just how self-critical a person I was until I read this book. It’s helped me to realise how I’ve deepened, or even created, my own suffering at significant times during my life. I only wish I’d found this book sooner!

    If you have a young teenage friend or relative who is having a tough time or appears a little lost - gift them this book. I can only imagine how much easier my life would have been during those critical years, had I had the power of self-compassion to tap into. I also believe that it doesn’t matter what age you are - anyone can benefit from Kristin’s teachings.

    A truly wonderful book that may just help you to lift yourself out of a deep pit of despair, or raise your happiness to even higher levels than you’ve ever experienced before.

    Thank you for all your help Kristin.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 19 May 2018
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    A very readable and enlightening book. The concept of self compassion and compassion for others is a particular interest of mine and combined with my meditation and church activities gives me the focus to be with my general anxiety disorder.
    This book covers these subjects and it has reinforced my beliefs
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 30 June 2023
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    I was drawn to this book through watching Kristin Neff’s TED talk, and was deeply impressed and moved by the power of this notion of how to relate to oneself. I was raised in a fundamentalist religion that actively taught the opposite-a message of self-denial and self-hate. However, even after leaving this religion, I’ve found that my experience of secular western culture has also encouraged a lack of self recognition, in favour of an emphasis on living up to someone else’s ideals. This refreshing take on how to relate to the self has been life-changing for me, because it actually presents a solid argument for ‘why’ and substantive detail on the ‘how’. I’m deeply grateful to Kristin for sharing this with the world and for the difference it’s already making in my life.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 13 June 2022
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    I learnt so much from this book about how to cope with the ups and downs of life and not be overwhelmed by my emotions.

    Self-compassion is a much better source of happiness and contentment than self-esteem, as the book and Dr Neff's studies show.

    There are plenty of stories from her own life plus a few good jokes to make it an easy read, although you'll want to take time to get the most out of the practical exercises too.

    I'll be coming back to this book again and again for myself as well as in my coaching work. I am now recommending it to my clients to read.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 30 October 2023
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    I’m half way through this book and I’ve highlighted so many pieces of wisdom & learning that I’ll be returning to again & again as part of my healing journey! For me personally, the timing of this book is key - I’m working with a therapist regarding childhood trauma & doing other growth work. This book alongside that is perfect for my healing journey. I would recommend this book to anyone who is their own worst critic and is open to being kinder to themselves and accepting to be human is to be flawed. Thank you Kristen Neff.
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    Amazing book! Life changing!

    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 30 October 2023
    I’m half way through this book and I’ve highlighted so many pieces of wisdom & learning that I’ll be returning to again & again as part of my healing journey! For me personally, the timing of this book is key - I’m working with a therapist regarding childhood trauma & doing other growth work. This book alongside that is perfect for my healing journey. I would recommend this book to anyone who is their own worst critic and is open to being kinder to themselves and accepting to be human is to be flawed. Thank you Kristen Neff.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 6 April 2025
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    If you find reading a chore don't get this book..
  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 10 July 2013
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    Was feeling like a failure personally and professionally for several reasons I won't go into here....some real, some perceived but all valid in my particular circumstances. Needed to learn how to deal with those feelings...and learn how to be compassionate to myself rather than beat myself up about being 'a failure'. Being the sort of person to say to myself 'just pull yourself together', it sounded to me ridiculous that I should have to learn to be compassionate to myself but I get it now. I couldn't just pull myself together, I had tried but I needed some help. Self compassion seems to be much more than just 'looking after number 1'. I'm not a psycho babble sort of person. This is accessible reading and, for me, it made a lot of sense.
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    4.0 out of 5 stars Great but I like the new burnout book best!
    Reviewed in the Netherlands on 14 March 2025
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    This book is great but I like the author's new book on burnout more because I find it a bit more relevant to today's problems, clearer and more concise, and updated with the author's newer concepts of tender and fierce concepts of self compassion.
  • Anastasia
    5.0 out of 5 stars Incredible!
    Reviewed in Australia on 16 August 2022
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    This book has some revolutionary ideas, I can’t believe how something so simple can be so effective. I’ve been able to mindfully practice self compassion for a few weeks now and it has changed my life and my outlook on life. The book is beautifully written and it’s just such a joy to read. It has also mentioned another book, on nonviolent communication which I now practice too in conjunction to self compassion. Im so grateful for this book!
  • Jaime Poole
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great book
    Reviewed in the United States on 28 April 2025
    A must have!
  • Mariia Nikolaienko
    1.0 out of 5 stars Bad quality of the product
    Reviewed in the United Arab Emirates on 11 June 2025
    Got the book in a bad condition
    The cover of the book is wrinkled and torn in some places
    For this price it’s very bad quality